Appearing single in the music industry when you're not!

How important is it for a female artist to keep hush, hush about her relationships? Music industry professionals are always saying that it is better to appear single. I understand this, but I think if you're hot, men and women are going to fantasize about you anyway. Whenever I've told someone I was in a relationship, they didn't care anyway, and still persisted to ask me out. I had a "rep" from Def Jam say some pretty, sexually nasty things to me to try and persuade me to leave my man. So does appearing single help you to elicit more attention? I don't know! In all honesty, I struggled with this predicament for a while. I mean, my relationships are a huge part of my life. As an artist we should be able to freely express ourselves through our lives, especially our relationships. My fans listen to my music and wonder, who is HunnyB talking about? Which dude cheated on her, and which dude makes her happy? I have known my music producer for a long while now, 11 years to be exact, and a couple years ago we became serious. In time we fell in love. Now he is the father of our soon to be first baby. For a year, we never once announced that we were together, as we thought it would be better if I appeared to be single. When we went to events, he was my producer and nothing more. Eventually, I got tired of this game. We are a mean ass team in music, and in life...I wanted to share both. Many of my songs were inspired by him, and still are. I wanted my audience to know who I was talking about. Rita Ora was dating Rob Kardashian for a while. It was all good until it started to get more serious, so Rita had to pull the plug, or so she thought. She wanted to keep Rob under wraps to appear available. Was this her idea? Maybe! However, Roc Nation probably had a lot to say about this as well. In my opinion, Rob Kardashian is a huge public figure, and if anything, this relationship would have garnered great publicity. I am not in my relationship with NHD for publicity, however I am proud to say that I have found love, and someone to support me in this fight to make it! He still allows me to be sexy, and be me. If you as my fans are going to like me, you have to know me. Well, here it is...HunnyB is in love, and getting married in 2014. My next blog will be about how he proposed, so watch out for that;) NHD and HunnyB all the way baby! This dream team that will make the world scream!